Thursday, August 21, 2025
Abi Has the Van
Tuesday, August 19, 2025
Snuggle
Ethan reached out a little after dinner and asked what we were doing. I was thinking I'd try and sneak away to go climbing, but I had exercised this morning, so I said I was available for whatever they needed. Soon he and Bella were here (8:30) to drop off Alvie so they could take a little break. I was glad to be able to have him here! He is so sweet. I played with him for a bit (I need to get a new gym mat, and a rattle...) then Abi asked for a turn. He seemed to be very comfortable snuggled up next to Abi's skin, and since he seemed so content, I told Abi she was stuck holding him now until he said otherwise.
She didn't mind.Today was our "extracurricular activities" day of the week. Abi had flute after school, Peter had soccer practice at 5, I got back from that and then got Owen and Daniel in the car so I could take D to Karate at 6:15, then Owen to his practice at 6:30. We signed up for 3 trial classes for Daniel. He seems to quite enjoy it, so after these three lessons are done we'll see what we decide to do.
Natalie is doing cross country at school, both she and Sophi are in ballroom, Lily is with RISE at Skyline, so yeah, the school year is in full swing with all the kids and it's going good. Now that the boys have started school, I don't have time for the usual morning bike ride, so this morning I took a quick jog along the Mt Jordan loop via tree farm. I was proud that I didn't stop and walk. I had to get that in, because as soon as the boys were off, I took Katharine to her friend Becca's house so I could go to the temple. The ward RS did a session at Draper. Abi had my car (for her flute lesson after school) so I was able to carpool there with Kathy O, one of my favorite people in the world. Lisa E and Jess were also in the car, and Maralee joined us at the temple. I'd like to start doing my 5 am initiatories again, but I've been struggling in the mornings lately. I also struggled at the temple - my big focus during a session in keeping my eyes open. Hopefully one day I'll move past that and will be able to focus on what is being presented and I can learn something!
Monday, August 18, 2025
First Day of School
The plan we made yesterday was: dinner at 6, FHE at 7, leaving for FHE at 6:45 - we went to Waterford and played soccer. We invited Ethan and Bella to join us. They are staying with Wayne for a few days. They joined us and invited some of Ethan's friends from the DR to come. I thought soccer would be an easy activity that everyone would like, but they weren't into soccer. So we had a game of kids vs. parents, and then when they showed up we visited and had some ice cream sandwiches. Katharine guarding the sandwiches until I gave the OK -
When I gave the green light, they all ate them, and I bought too much and so they each had three and most of them felt sick afterwards.
So better to have too many than too little? Maybe not, next time I'll just have two boxes, not three.
So they weren't interested in soccer, but Corey talked to them about climbing and they thought that that sounded fun, so we took them to the Temple Quarry first to walk around there and learn some of the history of the area, and then we went to Momentum. I'm glad that they wanted to do that, cause that got us another month of membership. Corey was wanting to cancel, but then we renewed for another month after they expressed interest in it.
A butterfly update - I found lots of eggs last week. I gave half of them away, but of the ones I kept, I was worried they were duds - but then when I checked this morning I had 13 that had hatched, fun!
I have some big ones and at various caterpillar stages and should have a few of them change to chrysalides this week. I didn't keep any of the eggs I found in July, cause we were busy at reunions, but I've kept some since we got back from Park City. It's fun, I'm not going crazy, but have been keeping track of the eggs I found. The first ones I found were on July 10 (16 eggs). Here's how many I found on each day:
- July 10 - 16
- July 11 - 1
- July 13 - 3
- July 14 - 8
- July 15 - 3
- July 16 - 4 before we left for Bear Lake (cause Owen saw a monarch flying around the plants by the AC - Terry came over while we were gone and found 31!)
- July 23 - 1 egg
- July 25 - 1
- July 26 - 7
- Then park City
- Aug 2 - back from PC, found 21 eggs and 2 babies
- Aug 4 - 4
- Aug 8 - 1
- Aug 10 - 18 eggs
- Aug 14 - 30 eggs
- Aug 16 - 3 eggs, gave 16 eggs 4 babies 3 big to Alisha
- Aug 18 - one baby
- Aug 19 - 1 baby
Saturday, August 16, 2025
First Soccer Games
Hello, coming to you live at 10pm on Saturday night. Corey is over at his parent's house waiting for Sophi to be done at a birthday party, Abi is with friends, Lily is here doing BYU math homework, Natalie is upstairs prob not doing much, maybe playing with Katharine? The boys have showered and are having a little bit of food before bed. They had a good day. Owen had his first soccer game at 9am. We were cleaning the church again today at 8am, so Owen got to leave cleaning a little early. He's on a big field this year! Katharine saw me leaving the church with him and cried cause she wanted to come with me, I told her we weren't going home, we were going to Owen's game, but she wanted to come, so she did and then she cried for a bit there cause she wanted to go home. We will after his game. Sniff "Okay..." Go #4!
Owen had fun, lost 3-1. We went home and then Corey took Peter to his game at 11:30. Daniel and Natalie went with him, probably hoping for Wendy's on the way home, which didn't happen.
After they got back I went and ran errands - Walmart for rice milk and onions, then Costco for food. I kept it pretty tight. We're in crunch time. We're postponing music lessons for a few weeks, hoping to know more about Corey's project by then. We're even going to cancel momentum, sniff. Everything is on freeze.
When I got home from Costco, Alive was here. Ethan and Bella went to the temple so I got to play with him for an hour. I need some baby toys. I had some rings which he liked, but I need a rattle.
Then he took a nap in my arms. He fell asleep as soon as I wrapped him up and held him right.
Yesterday went on a walk in the morning, Corey did a ride, Abi took carpool. I didn't let Sophi and Natalie go to Maceys' with friends after school cause they didn't practice. We are serious. They gotta practice. Date night discussion about kids' responsiblities. Ethan Bella and Alvie came over for last night for date night too. They picked up some pizza (Corey paid, they delivered) and as he looked at the legos all over our bedroom floor, he said we need to set boundaries and bring back the toy monster. That might be a good idea. Corey and I went out to eat at Bandits. We made a pretty good plan of attack for Saturday and the upcoming week as we waited for our food. I made a list of things to discuss, like going to Disneyland after Wesley gets home from his mission, cause Peter's never been and needs to go while he's still little. I think I'll make a list of things to discuss again next week. Back at home we talked with Ethan and Bella until 10:30. I think I'll bring back the Summer binders, which said system never really started, but we'll try again but they will be School Year binders.
Going to make a calendar for each of them right now. Used this site, looks pretty good! K I just printed those. Ok, yay for me I blogged today! I'm trying to stay on top of it and blog every night. Oh, here's a pic of Abi's thing she went to tonight - it was a "pink party" for all the new Senior ladies.
Thursday, August 14, 2025
AC Repair
Yesterday was the first day of school for Abi Lily Sophi and Natalie, but I didn't take any pictures, cause I was up the mountain on a bike ride. Abi took Lily, who had to be at school early to give the incoming freshmen a tour, cause she is a "RISE ambassador", then Abi came back and got ready. School started for her at 9:30. Corey took jr high carpool, they started at 9:45 as well.
Owen went swimming with a friend around noon, and today he went to the lake with another friend. He's got a good social life. DPK have been playing legos and watching movies in my crazy hot bedroom ~ watching Prince of Egypt and Curious George. I don't know why or how they are able to tolerate being in there cause it's so hot - the AC hasn't been working for over a week. I thought it was bad Tuesday at 89°F but I knew it would be worse on Wed cause the temp got up to 98°F! So seeing the forecast, I texted our landlord to let her know and she gave me the ok to contact the AC guy Elden. The girls have been sleeping on the main floor on the couches, and did last night too cause it was just took hot. Elden was able to send someone to look at it yesterday. The tiny old AC unit on the right here is the one that cools the upstairs.
He said the motor wasn't working. And after he talked to the landlord, she gave the ok to install a new AC, so they are here installing that right now (10am) and I trust that tonight everyone will be able to sleep in their bedrooms. Hooray hooray.Tuesday, August 12, 2025
Hyrum is 22!
Hyrum is 22 years old today. Sadly, he is away from us, far far away in California. Instead of taking him to lunch virtually (via video chat and venmo) we are going to go out to eat after he gets back around Sept 5, so stay tuned for that.
This morning, Lily said she had to be at school at 8. Abi went to take her, cause she was going to go work for my mom afterwards. I decided to hurry out and have them drop me off somewhere on Wasatch and I'd walk home. As we went, Lily found out she actually didn't need to be at school, so instead Abi took her to Momentum on Ft Union, which is close to my mom. Corey was at the temple with the other car. I told Lily I'd get her after Corey got back. I enjoyed a 4.75 mile walk and explored the river rocks just a little bit.
Peter was a bit nervous so I said I'd stay and watch. Katharine saw me leaving and wanted to come, but the slide was too hot so we just sat in the shade of the tree. She colored on my phone until she met a new friend. After that, PK came with me to return library books (didn't read most of them) and then it was time for a neighbor's birthday party. Daniel & Peter were invited, I gave a very small lego set, it was all I had on hand. Natalie told Katharine about the party at Becca's house, then K wanted to go so then I was stuck cause ASN all took off to go shopping. They dropped Owen off at soccer practice which was from 6:30-8. I put Katharine off for an hour and then we went over at 6. She got in the pool for one minute and then was done. She had some pizza and soda pop and enjoyed being there even if swimming and the bouncy house are beyond her level of comfort at the moment.
Monday, August 11, 2025
FHE - DIY Coldstone
Corey worked late tonight, but he does a good job making sure we still do FHE, even when we don't plan it out in advance or when we end up not having a lot of time. Ice cream usually does the trick for nights when we don't have our act together (which is most Monday nights!).
FHE treats are our treat. Katharine got Mamba's to mix with her ice cream... I'm not sure how that turned out for her, but she looked happy. They're always up for eating ice cream. Oh, also on Saturday, Daniel went to Macey's with Owen and a neighbor Liam, and there was an ice cream eating contest going on or something and Daniel won for his age category so he got a punch card for a free ice cream cone every week for a year at Macey's! So tonight we first went there to see if that was valid for his family too (he said it was, I didn't think it would be). It wasn't.
K, so that was FHE. Today was spent as most summer days are ~ playing legos and games. Peter made a "Prince of Egypt" set with Moses talking to Pharoah.
Flip the set around to see the Hebrew slaves with heavy burdens on their backs.
We also had a little bit of time to be with Baby Mary!
Eliza and Mary came down from Idaho last night and they flew back to Ohio today at 5:45. We enjoyed having some time to snuggle with Mary!
Corey took them to the airport around 3 - they went by a place to drop off Eliza's wedding ring first, to get it resized - it's always falling off her finger! So they are getting it tightened. I'm sure Joseph will be glad to have his girls back at home. He survived the first week of school last week. Eliza said that he said he's 5 days in, and he's only 3 days behind! Only they were gone this week, so he can't blame getting behind on being a new husband and father, lol.
Saturday, August 9, 2025
Last Weekend of Summer
Summer break is about over, and we've all just been taking it easy/lazy while we still can. I haven't made the kids do much, chores-wise (although Abi and Natalie did a fab job cleaning up the main floor yesterday evening). Abi went and picked up Lily and Sophi in Provo this morning. Those of us at home went to clean the chapel at 8am. ALS joined us around 8:30. Owen and Daniel have been playing with friends most days, after a token practice session, cleaning of their room and folding clothes. Practicing hasn't been much cause Owen has had a cold sore, and so if he can't play trumpet, and then Daniel protests he shouldn't need to practice sax if Owen doesn't have to do trumpet. Sophi and Lily have been at FSY this week. Abi has gone with Corey most days to do ACT stuff while he works at his dad's. Natalie, Peter and Katharine are my buddies here at home. There are still legos everywhere - have been this whole week. Peter and Katharine playing at the top of the stairs...
Terry kept it in her mesh cage for a few more hours and then released it later. Fun stuff. She's had 10 emerge so far, has 20+ more to go. I have a few baby caterpillars that I might give away.
Well, what else... yesterday Corey was fasting, so then I started a fast, so we didn't go out to eat for date night, we went climbing instead. I did the red 5.11b with only one rest, that one is intense. My goal is to be able to do it without a break before Wesley gets home, or before they take it down, or before we cancel our membership, whichever comes first. We might be cancelling momentum, but if we do that I think we should cancel music lessons too. We've either really got to hunker down and get through this and cut off all/any non-vital expenses, or I guess if we're gonna keep playing like we can keep paying for all of this, we'll keep pretending. The kids were invited to two birthday parties today, but we didn't go to either. I'm about at my breaking point and I just can't do birthday parties. I called and talked to Nicole yesterday morning, and she gave her permission to say no to the birthday parties. She said they would not miss me, and I believe her. So I just blew them both off. Probably not very nice, but it was necessary for my survival. The upstairs AC is broken, I woke up at 3am Friday morning and moved to the basement. Woke up, went out for a walk w/o headphones, then called Nicole for the home stretch. I've been thinking of the phrase "You must be the rock that the river cannot wash away." - from a talk by Elder Richard Maynes "The Strength to Endure". That talk helped me in 2016, and here we still are. I'm working on trust. Trust in the Lord.
Natalie just came up and showed me that she's learned the tik-tok version of the Soda Pop dance, so then I just wasted the past 30 min learning that via this tutorial, then practice at tempo. Back to blogging, I just finished May, yay. Gonna chip away at April June July next. Corey and boys and K are watching Journey to Mysterious Island, and I am blogging until we go to bed. LSN are at a neighbor's house for a party, Abi is sleeping over with friends. We didn't allow sleepovers, but Abi has broken our resolve. She'll be 18 next month, so yeah, we wave the white flag.
Thursday, August 7, 2025
Picking Plums
Corey and I went on a bike ride this morning, up to the ruins. Seems like I haven't been up there for a long time, but it has only been a little over two weeks (July 22). I listened to Follow Him podcast with Nicole Pikus Pace. The thoughts she shared went along with "Learn to Join the Dance" -
I spent some time texting neighborhood moms to figure out carpool. School starts next Wednesday for Skyline and Churchill. We've only got 4 of us driving, so I volunteered for us to do three mornings. Corey will drive Monday and Wednesday mornings and Abi will take Friday morning, cause that is a late start day for Skyline.
My mom called and asked if I know about dyson vacuums. Yes, we used to have one, I figured I'd be able to figure out what was going on - they were having trouble emptying the canister, so I went to help with that and got it fixed in less than two minutes. Then I was able to stay and visit for a few bit while K played with their russian stacking dolls. I'm glad my mom called and asked for help. As I drove home and headed into the neighborhood, I saw the neighbors plum trees that they've told people they can come pick. Went home and got 4 big bowls, then back and Katharine helped me filled them all! We reached the ones that we could from where we stood on the ground. The branches were hanging low, heavy with fruit.
We just kept picking and saying "We have a lot of plums!"
I also found 4 baby caterpillars. The popular spot for the mamas to put their eggs in the yard right now is the west pine tree in the back yard. I agree, that milkweed is really nice. It's very pretty green and looks lush, not like the hard and kinda dried out and colored light green milkweed that is in most of our yard.
I did some blogging, and I'm pleased to report that I have finished December 2024, yay. Then I finished March, woot. Working on April now, and trying to stay current. I really just need to do it at the end of each day, then I can stay on top of it from Aug 7 on into the future from here. And still catch up on April, May... June... sheesh and July, doh!