Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Sleepovers at Grandma's


We stayed with Corey's parent's after we arrived and all had a fun time playing with cousins, board games, legos, and watching movies.

Alexis and Abi in their matching pink frilly skirts out picking flowers in the backyard.

Hyrum's big pay day - Hogwarts Castle was his bribe/reward for going to school in Chile (last video on this post.) You did great, buddy!

Corey and I slept in the bedroom downstairs, and the kids were all set up with a pull out mattress on the couch and two air mattresses. Here's what they looked like at night time - reminded me a little of Chile :)


I wonder what the kids will think when they each have their own bed! We've moved into our own house now and are in process of getting things set up - the boys and Mel have their beds put together, but Lily and Abi are still on the floor with sleeping bags. But it's all good.

Monday, May 16, 2011

Updated with Pictures

These past posts are now updated with more detail and information and pictures:

Last Day of Church in Chile

and

The Adventure Continues: the day I was supposed to leave Chile but we were held back by the PDI

Moved In with Sick Kids

We are officially moved in - most everything is in the house or in the garage, and most of it is still in boxes. Except the Legos, boy were the kids excited to see all their Legos. They got right to work, and I'm grateful they've all been busy and entertained for the past 72 hours. I love Legos!


Except for Lily and Abi. They've needed their mother and father and have been very clingy, cause they just feel rotten. We had a terrible night last night - Abi and Lily are really miserably sick. Lily's been looking and acting like this


I'm taking the two little girls to the pediatrician in a half hour, along with the middle 3 boys that I kept home cause they don't sound so good either. Coughs mostly from them, Abi woke me up at 4 a.m. saying she needed a bandaid for her ear - she's been really congested so I think she's got an ear infection. Lily is just miserable. At 6 a.m. I decided to take them down for an unhealthy breakfast, hoping the marshmallow cereal would tempt them enough to make them put it in their mouths and stop their crying that had been going on for 2 hours.

Didn't work. Abi was so exhausted she went to sleep again their at the counter, after she put on a coat cause her fever made her cold. And Lily's screaming brought her father to her rescue again and he took her upstairs and she fell asleep with him for a few hours.

Now I'm off to the doc, and hopefully some antibiotics will make these kiddos feel much better by evening.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Hello Beautiful Utah and Beautiful Spring


Well, we are all back in the US and alive and whew, the fun just hasn't stopped - spring is in the air - the weather was beautiful and perfect for my sister's wedding yesterday. It was a great day and now it's Mother's Day and we're home from church and I have a few moments to blog - I don't think I'll be able to catch up with the last days of Chile, but I will try in a few weeks after I have a home and a computer to upload them all onto. Here's a few pictures of our weekend though that I am leeching off my sisters:
We arrived on Thursday and had a little party for all the Hibbert siblings so Beka could see us before the busy wedding day cause after that she was off on her honeymoon and wouldn't have time to visit before the Indiana Hibberts all headed out. So Thursday we had a little party at Noah's - I took some pictures, but for now I'll refer you to Jerusha's blog and her and Patrice's facebook albums to see those. We're thankful to the Bride and Groom, who gave us a really good excuse to come home a little early from our world travels. We decided to take family pictures while we waited for the bride and groom to emerge from the temple - Here's Corey and I with our crew

Almost all the grandkids in front of the Jordan River Temple's fountain - I loved this pictures cause you can see the beautiful Wasatch mountains - Look at those beautiful snow covered creations, I love Utah and the Salt Lake Valley - absolutely wonderful to be home.
Our "Let's go tallest to shortest photo" (who are we kidding - we're all short, except Grant.
Mom and Dad with all 24 of their grandkids! Wow!
Corey dancing with the kids as we tried to keep them entertained until the dinner party started.
My pretty Lily
Dinner done, everyone's ready to dance!
Ethan caught the garter belt! (He's so excited that he's getting married next!)
We had a great time - so happy we made it home to share in the memories!

Thursday, May 5, 2011

Departure Take 2

So, after being denied passage by the Chilean PDI, we got our luggage again and took the kids to Gabriel and Angela's house where Gabriel made them pancakes and they were eating and watching Madagascar 2 at midnight. Corey worked his magic on Skype with Delta and got me and my crew tickets for the next day, same flight, same time. While Corey did that, I rummaged through a bag of stuff that we hadn't packed but in a rush had just thrown in a garbage sack. Thankfully I found all the room keys for the apartment - they had been in Corey's junk drawer of misc. items. (Each bedroom had it's own key, even though we never used them cause the doors didn't close cause the door frames had been misaligned slightly by the earthquake in 2010.) So with all the keys in hand, Corey and I headed back to Las Condes to sleep in our apartment again with the owner who slept in the kids room, with plans to finish packing and to go to the Notary in the morning. We went right to bed and were asleep by 1:30 a.m.

Next morning, we got up around 8:00. I loaded up then pushed the apartment shopping cart down the street as I took the left over groceries and random toys to donate to the church nursery over to some friends. Corey and I finished looking under beds and in drawers and we left while the owner was still in bed, but I don't think she was sleeping, maybe just wanted us to leave. I felt bad cause I hadn't finished cleaning and the master bathroom was pretty disgusting with all the dirty magic erasers I had used as I worked my way back through the apartment. When we got there the bathroom was all cleaned, so I felt bad she had seen it like that and hope she didn't think we were totally terrible tenants. And if she does, oh well, it's over now. Off to the Notary!

We walked to the Notary, since there are Notary offices everywhere - it's quite the business racket down here. You have to have a law degree to be a Notary. There were lots of people there. Corey had some great comments as we waited which made me laugh, I'll write them when I find the paper I wrote them all on. We were a little annoyed that we had to jump through this hoop to go to our home country, but were also humored by it. We had a fun morning laughing at the whole situation.

Here was another situation - in Chile, you have to go cancel your internet and tv cable in person, so we had another errand to run after the Notary, it was almost 10:00, Corey's plane left at 1:10, we still had to drive to Los Cerrillos to get the boys that were flying out with him - hurry hurry! We go to Parque Arauco so he can run in and pay the bill. I stayed in the car to write down some of the cars info so we could pay the tolls we've been collecting - we had only recently figured out that the occasional beeping sound in the car when we were on the freeway was not any warning from the car to go in for a check up, but happened whenever we passed under an automatic toll booth that somehow scanned us like a UPC code. The mystery beeping is solved! And that you can pay that one online. So as I was waiting in the car, there was a tap at my window. Paula, our friend who had babysat all the kids after school yesterday and who we had said adieu to at that time, was looking at me with confusion in her face - "Either you are Tiffanie or you are her twin sister!" It's me. I told her how they didn't let me on the plane, she said her sister has trouble every time she flies cause her sister is black haired Chilean but her son is very fair skinned and light haired, they always giver her a hard time. Oh the joys of regulations. So we laughed and said goodbye again. She has a sister that lives in Utah and is coming to visit in June, so as we said bye she said "See you soon! But not here!... There!"

Corey came back to the car, we tried to leave, but our 15 minutes in the parking lot required payment, so we had to back up and go pay at their little parking pay machines, Corey came running back to the car. Okay, now can we go, Chile? Please?

We drove to Angela's house, and couldn't find it again, Gabriel came and found us and we followed him to his house -


Corey and the kids each grabbed their backpack, one small carry on suitcase to get them by during their one night in Costa Rica, and Corey's saxophone, then they were off to the airport. And most important: Do you have your notarized letter? Yes. With no luggage to check we hoped that would help them make it to the gate on time.

At the airport they scolded Corey for not being their 3 hours early. They had started boarding the plane at 11 for some reason. He called me and said he made it past the PDI okay to give me hope for my turn tonight. Good news! So he was off.


I stayed at Angela's and the kids watched movie after movie while I went through all of our too much stuff and gave a lot of it to Angela to use or pass along to others as she pleased - our DVD player, CD player, lots of clothes, an infant car seat, lots of school books, and miraculously after several hours of work, I had widdled things down to 8 checked bags, two small carry on suitcases, and 3 back packs and my bag with all my important documents: passports and don't loose the notarized letter!!!

The missionaries stopped by while we were there, one from Utah and the other from New Mexico (but to save explaining it everytime to Chileans who don't know where New Mexico is, he just says Texas) - the Elder from New Mexico had just received a package from the US and shared his peanut butter cups with the kids -


They are Joseph's favorite and they don't sell them here. (You can find Snickers, MnM's, Twix, and a few other US candies.) It gave us all hope that this land of the USA does indeed exist and yes, we can, we will make it there to the promised land!

I loaded up the luggage - can you believe it all fit!!! 6 bins, a big duffle bag, a big suitcase, two small suitcases, 3 backpacks and my bag, a stroller, a carseat, 4 kids and two adults - gonna make it!
The kids jumped on the mattresses outside while Angela and I loaded up the car with our 3D puzzle.

Took a picture with Angela's girls - they are angels and were so cute with Lily and Abi during the day (since we kept them up late they stayed home from school)


Lily doesn't want to go? She was tired. Hopefully she'll sleep well on the flight - 9 hours 45 min to Atlanta, I can do this!

We left around 6 to give ourselves plenty of time. Joe held Lily on his lap, Mel held Abi, the four of them scrunched into one seat, hope the police don't stop us!

With three carts we loaded the luggage again for take 2 of our attempt to depart. Joe pushed a cart, Mel pushed a car with Abi riding on top, Angela took a cart, and I pushed Lily. Good system we got going, gonna make it!

Checking in the baggage - Can you see Abi? She's there in the background, look above Lily's head - Abi is laying on the floor with her hands behind her head, like she's out on the grass gazing up at the clouds, pretty funny. Our baggage was checked by the same lady who helped us yesterday, luckily I had an infant pass for Lily this time thanks to our run yesterday. Ok, here we go to the PDI, notarized letter in hand. The lady told me to go to the office, I gave her a slightly panicked look, she said not to worry, something something I didn't understand, so I go over there and the officer takes my notarized letter and the kids ID cards to verifiy that in face the said man Corey Wride is indeed the biological father of said children. Corey didn't have to do this step, don't know why I did, but after a 20 minute wait we were through and gave a big hug to Angela for all her help - we love you!


We made it onto the plane! It was a nice big plane - 7 seats across. I had an empty seats besides me, so Lily and I had space and she was able to sleep there, it was very nice. US, here we come!!! We're gonna make it! Yay!!!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

And The Adventure Continues...

Tuesday May 3th - 9:00 p.m. departure time to head back to the US. Still had a ton to do - cleaning and packing. The kids still went to school that day (I won't do that again - messed up packing and I think was the main contributor as to why I didn't finish) I still had a lot to do, but at 5:00 we took a break for an interview with Start Up Chile, for their records, of our experience.


Corey played Illapu on his saxophone, I tried to clean and pack more, it was almost 6:00, and the owner was coming to get the keys and we still weren't cleared out. Corey said "Well, we gotta go, I'll come back and finish it tonight" - I hated leaving things in an un-finished state, I felt unfinished myself, the kids had gone straight from school to a friends house, Lily didn't have shoes, Abi's hair was in her face, but we were off, and I felt like "Well that sucked" - bad way to end the whole experience, in chaos and stress and feeling unsatisfied with the state of things. But what to do, the plane was leaving so we had to go.

In Rodrigo's car on the way to the airport.

Rodrigo helped us carry and check in our luggage. Suckers for the kids from their Sunday Loot - sticky mess - Abi's hair in her face, Lily's got no shoes on and two suckers in hand to keep her quiet - I couldn't find them in the packing mess.


Baggage all got checked in okay, but we didn't have a boarding pass for Lily to be an Infant in Arms, so Corey went to take care of that at the Delta Help office while the kids and I sat and they sucked their suckers.

Got the ticket for Lily, we're good to go! 8:00, plane leaves in an hour, we're good on time, we're gonna make it!

Or so we thought... one last and major glitch at the Chilean Police Department of Investigation Stations: I hand over our passports and Chilean ID cards, they look it over and we're ready to officially part ways with Corey and the boys until we meet again in Utah, but no, "You need to go talk to the PDI Office." The kids and I waited at the gate while Corey talked at the office.

Waiting and waiting for an hour, ...isn't it fun to wait, Lily?

Corey talked in the office with the head honcho who did not look up at Corey, talked to Corey while he looked at his desk papers, did not listen with any empathy, compassion, or understanding or rational thinking, he just kept repeating, "Nope, nope, she can't go..."


Corey calling people at Start Up Chile to see if they can help us out. 8:45 - a guy from Delta comes looking for us, he walkie-talkies the plane to tell them we're stuck with the PDI and aren't going to make it... Oh dear, how is this all going to end? Are we going to loose our tickets and have to buy new ones? Um, that's gonna be around $4000 bucks which we'd rather not spend... come on, guys, give us a break!

In he end, common sense did not prevail. they would not give me and my 4 kids permission to pass because I was attempting to travel with Corey´s children without him without written permission, and I can´t do that under Chilean law, which, we found out, applies to us since we have temporary visas and Chile National Identification cards. Who knew!

Said the head of the police there "You´re practically Chileans..." Well, we´re flattered. But we think he had a chip on his shoulder or some bone to pick, so we were the lucky ones last night. ¨She can´t go without permission...¨ Corey ¨Here I am! I give my permission!¨ Nope, nope, no good. Funny how being there in person giving permission doesn´t hold any weight, you gotta get a typed document that´s notarized and signed.

I told the kids to show me their sad faces... I think Joe wins.

Chile´s National motto has taken on a new meaning for us "Por la razón o la fuerza" Last night that Police chief chose strength, to show the strenght of his word, over reason. Come on buddy, a little common sense! You can look at us, hear us speak, look at our US passports and know we are not Chileans, give us a break. Pretty funny. ¨I´m sure it will become more funny the further we get away from it¨ (-name that movie!)


Luckily, Gabriel was there to save the day by providing the children with food and shelter for the night while Corey called Delta who I will always love as an airline, they switched us to the same time and flight for today with no fees, and then Corey & I went back to our apartment to finish up packing and then this morning we went to a Notario to get a notarized paper for each of us so that we could each travel legally with permission of the other, on flights without each other with our children. Such drama! It makes a good story. I'll give the details of our Wednesday soon.

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Dear Lily

As I clean and pack I am finding and scanning over tons of kid papers and drawings and crafts and notebooks, trying to sort out trash from treasure. I just found this gem on the inside cover of a spiral notebook that made me smile, a letter to Lily from Joseph. (spelling in original)

To: Lily Wride my sister
as I right this you're takeing a nap and I'll read it to you at the proper age when you can enjoy it and not tear pages out and ruin the whole tings and mak me start all over again and please let me sleep, everyone needs it just like in the 5th chapter.
Joe
ps, please do what it tells you
and also to Wane Wride my grandpa, Grandpa I hope someday you'll be able to read this book and Love you dearly and thank you for all you taught me. Joseph Wride

(the story he was referred to is not in the notebook, hmm. I'll have to find out if he took it out and is guarding it somewhere else or if Lily really did destroy it again and poor Joe has to start all over.)

Monday, May 2, 2011

Last Day of Church in Chile

A lady at church yesterday who loves my kids and who my kids love brought them over a gallon of treats and cookies to try and bribe them into staying with her AND 7 baby bunnies! Needless to say she had their full attention and I did not have control over them at all at church - They were almost persuaded. Once we got home, I, the government, promptly confiscated all their booty and with threats such as "If you ever want to see your candy again, stop teasing your sister" they all became my reluctant subjects


Another lady in our ward (Mary Joe - she's such a cutie) almost lured Abi into leaving church with her cause she has a pet cat!

I barely talked her out of it with promises of a pet bunny. Kid's minds are so simple - Sometimes I'll see Lily walking around holding a DVD or something and instead of just taking it from her, I like to put quickly and unnoticed by her place a random attention getting object (like a book, piece of candy, cell phone) in her path of vision, and 99% of the time she goes for it. So funny. I think that example is how God also knows what we're going to do in a given situation, but still we are the ones with the liberty that make the choice - he just knows us too well. We are like little toddlers easily distracted, but it helps Him get us where he wants us to go.

I also had to get a picture of Hyrum with Laura - she was in his church class and in his class at school which I think (in addition to being bribed with a Hogwarts Lego Castle) made his time at school much easier to adjust to - they like to play tag and the games usually carried over the weekend into the church block time. "Pinta!"

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