World's Best Mom

Pin a blue ribbon upon my chest, I'm feeling like I deserve an award.  And I'm being sarcastic for saying it would be the "Best Mom" award.

So I was just downstairs at the computer in Corey's office, which office I rarely if ever go in to to use the computer, so I feel grateful I was in there, because I just happened to be in one of the few spots of the house where I could see what I saw. Yea, lo and behold, I did happen to look out the window at those little things moving, what is that I see?  Two little feet dangling off of the roof?  I stand and look for a better view, and sure enough, there on the patio roof are my two little daughters, ages 3 and 5, the younger sitting, the older standing, smiling and looking out at the world with little eyes full of wonder at awe, amazed at the perspective  up here at this new and great height at which they are at.

My mind: "OH MY GOSH..." but no use calling at them from the lower window I know so I quickly go bookin' it up the stairs in a mad dash saying "OhmygoshOhmygosh" and I make Hyrum's and Sophia's hearts race too as thunder past them as they quietly read and I leap two stairs at a time going up to my room where I had left these two lovely girls.  They had been playing house.  I go to the bay window area where the window is open which leads to the roof and I see they are still safe and alive on top of the roof and I say with feigned calmness "Abi, Lily, come.over.here.right.now..." and they carefully walk over to the window, I bring them back in, shut and lock the window and then I gasp for air and I spend the next 20 minutes trying to breath and calm down from my heart attack.

"YOU CANNOT GO ON THE ROOF, you cannot climb out the window, that is not allowed, who's idea was that? (Abi's) Why would you think that was okay to go out there?" I say and ask these questions over and over again and I'm venting and thinking of what I believe inspire this little adventure... over the weekend, Corey fertilized the back lawn, so the kid's play slide was pushed over off the lawn on to the dirt right by the shed.  Despite my "I'd rather you guys didn't do that" plea, Ethan had been proudly teaching his siblings who were willing how to climb onto the roof of the shed.  I watched them and prayed they wouldn't fall, if they did I guess it would be about a 7 foot drop onto the dirt, probably cause a broken bone but not death so, I reluctantly let them live and learn and they all survived.  Even Abi and Wes made it on top, which Ethan brags about to make Hyrum feel bad "Even a FIVE year old could!!!" and I'm praising Hyrum that he is my model child who has not given in to the peer pressure - he didn't feel good about it, thank you my son, good job buddy.  So, the other kids are all feeling so big and brave and tough.  Yes, I'm sure that is where Abi's brilliant idea came from to take her little sister out on the roof with her.  I'm guessing that one would have been a 12-15-ish foot drop onto the grass, depending on where you measure the angled roof from.  Probably survivable, but I lectured Abi for a few minutes that THAT is what I have nightmares about, THAT is what scares Moms, is their kids falling from a high place and getting hurt or dying.  Relating it to nightmares made her understand a little bit why I was freaking out.  She asked "How come grown ups get to go on roofs?"  We don't go on roofs to play, we go if we have to (like when we cleaned out the gutters in the fall, everyone wanted to go up with Corey) We also go get shots at the doctor if we have to.  We get shots, and get on the roof sometimes, not cause it's fun or cause it's a game.  It's not a game, it's dangerous and we don't do it unless we have to.  Not sure how much of that clicked for her.  I called Corey and told him my heart attack story for a few minutes, then lectured Abi again, then called Nicole and told her, then my heart was about calmed down enough to function.  Not really something you go post and laugh about on facebook or anything, cause then you get one of these awards, right.  - not

I know it's just life and things like this happen to all parents, but man, deep breath, don't like it.  Glad they did not get hurt.  Window is now locked, we're going to have a little family lesson on this tonight: "Why you should listen to your parents", Corey's asked to teach the lesson and I've obliged.

Discovery Park

In between the Saturday afternoon sessions of General Conference a week ago, we met up at the "wood park" (aka Discovery Park in Pleasant Grove) with our dear friends that we met in Costa Rica, the Meyers.  

That week was Joseph's spring break, so he had gone down on Thursday night and was able to hang out with Michael for two days, so this was also when we picked him up.  All the big kids had fun playing with their long lost jungle friends.  Not sure if they all talked about Costa Rica much, but they did all enjoy seeing each other and playing.

They spun and spun each other on the tire swing until they were sick (they'd just eaten a bunch of cookies).

After I gave them a few spins, the "I feel like I'm gonna throw up" bench was almost full.

We adults just had to keep tabs on the babies and toddlers.  Usually I don't want to push kids on the swing, cause it means that I have to stand out in the sun.  But since this was a cool and overcast day, I didn't mind. I actually really enjoyed it!  Seeing the big smile of true happiness on Lily's face as I pushed her just warmed my heart.

Sophia liked the swing too.  We were able to chat with the Meyers as we all pushed the babies.

Corey spun them around on this thing too - it was funny seeing Sophi's smile and also seeing her start to lean more and more to the left with each turn.  Hold on tight, kiddo

We left home for the park at 11:00 and were able to listen to the 2nd hour of conference in the car, which is one of the best ways for us adults to actually hear the conference live.  We had arranged a lunch with each other, rolls and salad, cookies, carrots and apples.  We had a nice visit and after 2 hours we all headed back to the cars - listening again to the next session of conference as we drove.  Wonderful talks were shared. I love General Conference. I'm learning more and more that it's all about family.

Reading

I walked in on these two girls reading yesterday

Sophia prefers to use her activity table as a tub, and seeing her sitting in it totally made me laugh.

I love those cute little feet and fidgeting toes, always busy.  Love it.

Little House Legos

I started reading "The Little House" books to Abi last month.  I never read them as a child and have been enjoying them.  Abi liked the Big Woods but isn't so interested in the Prarie, but I torture her and make her listen, she's relatively patient about it for a 5 year old.  Hyrum usually can't help but over-hear the story, and after finishing Percy Jackson he asked if it would be okay for him to read the Little House books.  It took Abi and I a while to read the book, cause we just read a chapter a day, but Hyrum read the first book in 2 days and has been reading the series.  He's on "By The Shores Of Silver Lake" right now.  Of course, no reading adventure is complete without making Legos to go with it, so here is his Little House on the Prarie Lego set

Caroline holding baby Carrie, and Charles taking care of their horses Pet and Patty

Inside their little house on the prarie - just realized I didn't get a good picture of the fireplace, but it was well done, Hyrum did a good job.

Mary and Laura ~ You can tell by their faces that Mary is good but Laura is a mischievous little girl.

The well built log home  cabin and is able to withstand toddler play.

(Those prarie wolves are as big as the horses, yikes!)

Stick'em Up

Sophia has learned how to stage a stick up.  First get the toy gun from Wesley's cowboy dress up clothes (it can often be found laying around on the floor).  Next, take the gun and point it at your brothers and sisters and say "Pa!" (pow).  They will fall on the ground.  Then everyone laughs.

After everyone's eliminated, she points the gun at herself and pows herself and she falls down too.  Then they all do it again, they think it's a pretty fun game.  Of course anything is "fun" and "cute" if it involves Sophia, we all love it.

Thanksgiving Point

We have a membership to Thanksgiving Point that I haven't taken advantage of since October when we took Angela to see the gardens.  It expires next month, and with the new baby soon to be here, I don't see myself using it much during the last trimester or during the first year, so I don't think we'll renew it yet.  Luckily we've got it now and so we'll be going either this weekend or next to the Tulip Festival.  Love the gardens.  The kids like the play areas and the farm, so I'm trying to take advantage of it this last month.  It's a great deal though, with our brood I only have to go two times to make the year long membership a bargain for us, sweet!  I took Hyrum and the girls there for a field trip, they had a good time.

Lily was afraid of all the dinosaur bones and was reluctant to go anywhere or do anything, so we spent most of the time in the sand pit digging for fossils and a little while at the water table / land erosion area.
Didn't get pictures of the water table place cause I was holding Sophia up to it the whole time.  Fun stuff.

Easter Egg Hunt

Just a few pictures from the Easter Egg Hunt we did here at our house with my side of the fam a week ago...  Of course, Sophi is just super cute.  She was wearing her squeaker shoes, so funny ~

Lily and Sophi pausing their search so I can snap a picture ~

Abi and Lily had to dress up in her Easter dresses to make the event official

No basket for Abi ~ here's an ice cream container, good enough.

Corey attacked all his little girls with hugs and kisses as they made their way inside after collecting their loot.  He is such a great dad, life is so good.  Happy spring!

Treat from Dad

Corey was in Texas for a few days on a quick business trip and got back last night. On his flight back he had a connection in Arizona where he purchased treats for the kids.  Some regular candy, then a really special surprise.  He presented the surprise first ~ "Who wants a SUCKER?!?!"  Abi and Lily were jumping up and down "ME!! ME!!  I do!! I do!!"  He gave it to Abi.  She said "YAY!!!"  Then took the sucker.  Looked at it.  Paused.  "Actually, I don't want a sucker..."  Lily?  Do you want the sucker?

Uh, that would be a "no."

I was repulsed.  The rest of the children were equally offended at the idea.

That, my friends, is a real scorpion in there, not plastic.

Isn't that just the grossest thing ever?  These guys gotta only be making money selling these things cause people are using them for practical joke gifts.  "No, people really eat them" Corey insisted.  Bleck.  Lily went off on a "I hate sco-pians" speech.  Corey asked her "Why did Jesus make scorpions?"  "Jesus didn't make sco-pions." she replied.  "Then who made them?"  "Maybe the monsters did!  Let's put the sco-pians in the MUDS!"  Sounds good to me.

So if you want to be grossed out, or find a good gag gift for that special person in your life that you're trying to one-up, here's their website.  (Yuck!!!)

A Bad Bonk

Melodie and Sophi were playing with the guinea pigs in the back yard yesterday, and then Melodie went to put the pigs away and left Sophia on the hammock, and then Sophia fell off the hammock and hit her eye on the metal frame of it, and it must have hit in just the right spot on her cheek bone cause boy, it got swollen up right away.  She would not let me put ice on it, but the swelling went down during the evening.  However, this morning when her little sleepy face greeted us, it about broke my heart!  Look at that little eye!

 Well, once she stopped goofing off and making silly faces

There it is - look at that poor little eye, oh Sophi Baby!!!

Are you okay?  I took her to the mirror and she seemed a little disturbed by her reflection.  After I took these pictures I showed them to her on the camera and she just said "Baba!"  Yes, look at that cute baba.  You are a cutie Sophi, an I'll kiss your little eye all day and try to make it better.

Little Helpers

I think the favorite job of most of my kids is emptying the dishwasher.  Loading it about makes them want to die, it's "so disgusting".  But unloading - now that's nice, all clean dishes.  They especially love it if Sophi helps.

Sophi's usually the first one to start unloading, then they all rush in to be the first to help her.  The rest of the kids were at school on Monday, Abi didn't have competition and was able to help Sophi and have Sophi help her.

She was laughing everytime Sophi handed her a utensil, and so was I.  Super cute.

Then Sophia even ventured to put them in the silverware drawer herself.

So fun.  Love these little helpers, and trying to teach them so they still want to help when they are older.

Nap Time

I often put Sophia down for her afternoon nap like this:

which turned into this last Saturday

(LOVE that little ankle crossed over on her knee!!)   And then finally ended in this - ah, nap time.  

 I was happy to lay on the bed and join her.

She really is just the cutest little bookworm in the world.

And look at those lashes, such a lucky girl.  Glad that one of my girls got them from Corey, cause it just wouldn't be fair for the boys to be getting them all.

Policy

Corey has had my computer at work ~ he's "nuking" it again for me, cause it's got bugs.  He's had it since Friday.  I'm up in the morning right now using his computer before he takes it to work.  Hopefully my computer will be done today, but then again, wow - it's amazing at how productive I've been around the house without it.  Last night I came here to his computer to try and check my email (all junk mail messages) and Sophi kinda freaked out.  Is that another sign that I am sitting in front of this little machine too much?  I'm thinking this experience is good for me.  I should probably spend less time at the comptuer.  Think of all that I could accomplish!  Although I had to modify dinner last night cause I couldn't google the side dish that was in my brain, and Mel and I didn't finish an easter craft that I'd seen on pinterest, and Hyrum wasn't able to do Khan Academy during homeschool yesterday, but the pros have been pretty obvious: I cleaned all day yesterday and the house is amazingly clean, and not just rooms, we're talking drawers and closets too, Abi and I read together, I made a great dinner, and I feel really fulfilled and satisfied.  Very interesting.  Yes, I belive my computer being gone has been a blessing in disguise, and now I get to choose what I do with this new knowledge.  I'm thinking maybe I'll only sit down at the computer when kids are in bed maybe.  Or maybe limit my computer time to a certain hour of the day?  Or to once or twice a week?   Exploring that topic...

Another topic I explored over the past month and a half was whether I like not knowing the gender of our baby.  Of course, I did find out the gender when I had my ultrasound in February and told Corey the gender, but I was exploring whether it was fun for the kids not to know, and thus vicariously see if I liked not knowing.  And I've decided I don't.  For me, there's already so much of excitement in even having a baby when they are born, finding out the gender is a way to make the excitement and anticipation last longer.  So Sunday we told them and it's nice to have them not nagging and going crazy with curiosity.  I've wanted to tell the kids and relatives for a few weeks, but Corey said I couldn't set policy and then just go change it just because.  I protested that I wasn't officially setting policy, I was just exploring the topic and trying it out for size, a very Venitian thing to go.  He was being a very focused Maritan.  But, thankfully his mother's birthday helped break him, cause if there's anything she really wanted that we could give her, it was to know if it was a boy or a girl.

And it's a girl. 

4 little girls in a row!  We are gonna have such the house of teenaged drama in 13+ years.  I have 4 sisters though, so I'm thinking I can handle it.  A few years ago when we were a family of 5 kids, 4 boys and just 1 girl, I was thinking I had gotten myself into something that I didn't know how to deal with.  But the girls have come from behind to take the lead, 5-4.  We were all sure it was a boy, cause we just haven't had a boy baby for so long, and Wes was hoping he could have a little brother, so... there might just be one more... (again, not setting policy here, just exploring the topic) - Corey and I don't know how many kids we want.  If you were to ask Corey, he answers "Three.  ... but we can keep the ones we have."  My thought is that we just take these kids one at a time, so I'll see how I'm feeling later this year.   (And I'm betting that day 1 after seeing this angels face that my pregnancy amnesia will have already started to set in...)